A Sip of How to Set Better Intentions

02 Jul, 2023 0 comments
Melvin Smith Melvin Smith

Setting intentions is imperative in a transformation journey. Through setting intentions, one is establishing purpose. Providing accountability towards achieving your goals. 

After talking with my guest Uri Baker. I resonated with his ability to find purpose towards goals if they are tied to an intention to change. 

Here are some steps to help you set intentions for your personal journey.


Establish Your Values

The first step in this journey is establishing one’s values. Values can come from numerous inspirations. All unique to the individual’s perspective.

It is important to reflect your values. To do this, take some time to think about what matters to you, what you want to achieve, and what kind of person you want to be. 

Continue by reflecting on your past experiences and identify moments that made you feel fulfilled, happy, or proud. Think about what moments were most memorable. Like the compassion you had for others or the appreciation of your creativity. 

Prioritize your values based on their importance to you. Ask yourself, “Which values are essential to my identity and sense of purpose?” and “Which values guide my decision-making in life?”

Establishing your values is a process that takes time and reflection. 

Values are deeply personal and can vary greatly from person to person. 

By reflecting on your experiences, you can establish a set of values that guide you towards a fulfilling life.


Write Your Intentions

Be specific and use positive language. Say, “I intend to work on my tasks every day and prioritize my responsibilities.”

We all retain information differently, here are five (5) ways to “write” your intentions:

  1. Use affirmations:
    • Affirmations are positive statements that can help you focus on your intentions and reinforce positive beliefs about yourself. Write down affirmations related to your intentions and read them aloud daily to help keep you motivated and focused.
  2. Create a vision board:
    • A vision board is a collage of images and words that represent your intentions and goals. Cut out images and words that represent your intentions and paste them onto a poster board or piece of paper. 
  3. Record a voice memo:
    • Speak out loud about your intentions, the reasons why they are important to you, and any action steps you plan to take to achieve them. Listen to the recording regularly to keep yourself focused and motivated.
  4. Write them down in a journal:
    • Writing is a great way to gain clarity on your thoughts on what you want to achieve. Write your intentions in detail and provide action steps.
  5. Collaborate with a friend or mentor:
    • Share your intentions with a trusted friend or mentor and ask for their input and support. Work together to write out your intentions and create a plan of action. 

Remember, the key to keeping your intentions is to make them clear, specific, and actionable. By using the method that best suits for your needs, you can gain clarity, stay focused, and act towards achieving your goals.


Visualize Your Intentions

Let’s take some time to close our eyes and visualize ourselves achieving our intentions. 

Take a few deep breaths to relax your body and mind.

Picture yourself achieving your intention in vivid detail. Use all your senses to create a realistic image in your mind. See yourself doing, feeling, and experiencing your intention.

As you visualize your intention. Focus on the positive emotions that come with it. Allow yourself to feel these emotions as if your intention has already been achieved.

Visualization is a process that takes practice and patience. By visualizing your intentions with clarity and positive emotions, you can attract positive energy and opportunities into your life.


Take Action

Breaking down your intentions into small, achievable goals helps work towards them. 

Here are some ways you can take to turn your intentions into action:

  1. Even small, take the first step. Each step you take will bring you closer to your goal.
  2. Celebrate your progress along the way. Acknowledge the small wins and milestones you reach. This can help keep you motivated and encouraged.
  3. Stay committed to your intention and take consistent action towards it. It’s important to stay motivated and persevere through any obstacles or setbacks that may arise.
  4. Be prepared to adjust. Obstacles are inevitable. Be flexible to make changes as needed.

Be Kind to Yourself

It’s okay to stumble. Giving grace is important for mental health. 

Try to treat yourself with the same kindness that you would offer to a friend. Speak to yourself with encouraging and supportive words.

Take time to reflect on your strengths and accomplishments. Celebrate your successes and recognize the progress you’ve made.

Make time for activities that nourish your body, mind, and souls. Prioritize self-care activities as part of your daily routine.

Recognize that no one is perfect, and it’s okay to make mistakes or have flaws. Focus on progress and growth.

If you make a mistake or fall short of your own expectations, try to practice self-forgiveness. Accept your imperfections and move forward with a positive attitude.

Giving grace to yourself is an ongoing practice that requires patience, self-awareness, and self-compassion. By cultivating a positive attitude, you can improve your overall well-being.


Setting intentions is a powerful way to start a personal journey. By reflecting on your values, writing down your intentions, visualizing your goals, acting on those intentions, and being kind to yourself through the journey, you can create a roadmap for your personal growth and development.

I hope these tips will help you start your transformation journey with confidence and clarity. 

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